Fashion Tips

Fashion Tips

Thursday, March 22, 2012
• 3:54 AM •

Polyvore Q&A: Dress Up, not Dressy!

Polyvore Q&A: Dress Up, not Dressy!

It seems quite sad when you think that a beautiful dress will be trapped in the closet as it awaits for the perfect dressy occasion. But why should we wait until then? Below is my style advice to jen1990’s question on casualizing a party dress for everyday!

PS: In love with the Alexander McQueen tote!!

Click here for this question’s thread on Polyvore!


So unfortunately, your dress, alone, is dressy. BUT fortunately, we can work around it to be worn casually or for the day!
The dressy thing about your dress is the one strap, so I suggest you to tuck that in when you wear it, so that it look like a tube top. Refer to the set I created for you!
For such a vibrant green, gold is a better choice than silver accessories.

So since you said that you follow the preppy’s the left side of the set I made. A blazer can sharpen your look and balance out the flowiness in your dress.  Match it with gold accessories. The crystals on the gold flipflops brings the outfit down a notch so you still have the daywear look. AT THE SAME TIME, this sharp daywear can be transformed for a fun night out with the girls. You want to dress up but not be dressy, you know what I mean? You can add the black belt like I did there. Change the shoes for something more sleek, maybe even a bit of black patent?

For a more casual look, refer to the right side of my set. Wear the black sheer blouse on top of your dress. Unbutton the bottom buttons so that you can effectively tie your shirt in a knot at the crease wear the skirt starts. Unbutton the top buttons so we can see your beautiful neck. Charm bracelets are fun! The charms on the bracelet represent you and never go out of style!

Carry a statement bag like the McQueen bag! It’s so sexy and practical for you to carry lots of things. Plus the gold detail on the bag goes with all your gold accessories. This bag is stylish… the design is not too busy/distracting and its casual!

Hope my long ass advice had some helpful tips loll.
How to Be A Snob – Be Reputable with these 4 styling laws! 


A dressy green dress for a casual occasion

Friday, March 2, 2012
• 9:22 AM •

How to be a S.N.O.B.

S.N.O.B: Be Reputably Stylish with these 4 Styling Laws

Being stylish is something everyone can benefit from. You can be proud of your intelligence, who you are as a person or your general success, but why should that come in the way of dressing well (and thus looking good!).  If you’re an awesome person, then embrace it and let it show – in every aspect!

Below is a checklist of the S.N.O.B. styling laws – “laws” because they are pretty fundamental. These guidelines will enhance your styling skills to help you build a better ensemble that will  bring out your best features while adding a little oomph. Styling is an art, the clothing and accessories are the art supplies, and you are the blank canvas. As cheesy as that analogy sounds, it perfectly describes the dynamic of styling and its relevance to you!

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Show Yourself.

  • Be true to yourself and your sense of style. Not every trend is for everybody. A trend won’t always mesh well with your look your body shape. Wearing something just for the sake of being trendy can make you look and feel awkward.
  • Make your favorite asset stand out
    Be wary of double-slutting it, that is, to emphasize/expose two sexy areas like your chest and legs at the same time. It can easily be misconstrued as begging for attention. S.N.O.B.’s do not beg for attention. Attention comes to you.
    Skin Exposure:
    – Chest: If your twins can couple up to create a cleavage line, you probably have a larger bust. Bigger breasts no doubt add to sexiness, though if abuse this attribute, you risk looking too promiscuous, especially if they are squeezed together to the point of suffocation. On the other hand, those who have a small bust can have a plunging neckline without looking the least bit provocative. This fact sucks, but it’s true! General tip: Wear something where you’re cleavage is not on the verge of creating a “wardrobe malfunction”. Wardrobe Malfunctions –> not stylish!

– Butt: Never EVER have that butt cleavage (butt crack) show.
Say NO to crack, kids!
– Legs: Your skirt, dress or shorts should not fall significantly higher than your mid-thigh, but if you have a modest top, go wild.

  • Utilize the colors that suit you best; that work well with the color of your eyes, skin and hair. Black is your frienemy (friend and enemy). It can make a statement but it can also suppress your potential to shine.
    Everybody has their own set of optimal color(s) (I’m not talking about neutrals here!). Experiment! I know a lot of people suffer from the dependency of wearing black all the time. I understand that it’s safe and at times it can be a bold statement, but color can achieve boldness like nothing else. Wearing something in your optimal color range can make all the difference. For example: A person can wear the exact same outfit as you, but the look may suit you more just because the colors of the outfit suit your body! Color can be risky and sometimes impractical but it’s fun and always adds personality. I can guarantee that looking “safe” is rarely noticeable, let alone memorable. Let’s be honest here, it’s nice to be noticed on how you look sometimes!
  • Wear the clothes, don’t let them wear you! You don’t want to just be noticed for your outfit; you want to be noticed for how amazing you look in your outfit.
    Basically, you don’t want your clothes to overpower you. You have to OWN YOUR LOOK! Your clothes should not surpass your comfort threshold. No one wants to look like they’re dying in their outfit. As much as you want to dress to impress, the person you should always impress is yourself and that’s not likely going to happen if you are masochistic with your outfits. The right level of confidence sells, so make sure that bystanders can see and feel the confidence ooze from your face and your walk.

Never force it.

  • An item of clothing or a particular accessory may be beautiful on its own, but it may not always be suitable with the overall look you are trying to achieve. If you are struggling to fit in a piece – that is your gut telling you that it’s just not going to work.
This outfit, although AMAZING editorial-wise, is not necessarily something easy to wear everyday. Each piece looks great on its own, but all together at once? Not so much.
Photo Credit: V Magazine 
  • Your whole look should be cohesive. It should make sense and have a sense of flow, like a story! One easy way to accomplish this is to match colors.
  • Sometimes the best approach is to choose your key piece, and then work around that.
    You can be easily overwhelmed with the amount of stuff you have in your closet. Being organized with your ideas simplifies the task altogether. Start with your master piece, the piece that would be the focal point of your outfit and then concentrate on the details of it. You can then find things that compliment the details of your piece, like making a particular color or pattern stand out. Find accessories that fit the theme of your key piece: the colors, the image (casual vs. dressy), the overall structure of your outfit, etc… This step by step approach should lead to a cohesive outfit. Edit if needed, by swapping or removing things.

Only wear authentic items.

  • Never look at, touch or smell a designer knock-off, let alone wear one. You’re better than that.
    (Obviously, if you are not one to indulge in designer labels, then this rule would not apply to you, except in the case where people one day decide to manufacture knockoffs of mall brands like H&M. In that case, please please purchase genuine H&M.)
    This is my biggest pet peeve and this usually pertains to designer accessories. I just don’t see the point. It’s a desperate and sad attempt to be “stylish”. If you can’t afford it, don’t pretend like you can. Seriously, don’t feel bad that you can’t afford a 2000$ handbag. A stylish person is not defined by how much they spend on their wardrobe. If you wear a designer knock-off, you implicate that you aren’t stylish enough to find something similar yet affordable. You also implicate that you yourself are “fake” like the knock-off you purchased. Because believe it or not, most people buy knockoffs to pass it off like they own the real thing (*pause to gasp at the shock of that statement*)…That’s not exactly the vibe you want to give off, right? Instead, opt for affordable designer-inspired alternativesIt’s better to own a “no-name” brand than to own designer knock-off.


  • Balance out what you expose.
    To put it plainly – don’t look sleazy. Flaunt your assets, but if your overall image is too inviting, you will come off self-conscious instead of stylish. Be classy, not trashy.  Here at Snob Affair, we like to emphasize that sexiness is not directly proportional to how much skin you show. Sexiness is about making your best features stick out, without literally sticking out (because, ew.) and it is about the confidence that you exude.
  • Balance out unwanted features.
    Style with clothes that accentuate your best features and that counterbalance your less than desirable ones, making them less apparent.
    Ex: If you would like to counterbalance a long torso, wear a high-waisted skirt to accentuate the length of your legs.
  • Balance out your outfit’s silhouette.
    Often times, but not in all cases, a fairly balanced silhouette is usually the goal when assembling an outfit because it is timelessly flattering. Consider having a mix of Flowy VS. Structured, Fitted VS. Loose, Embellished VS. Plain.
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  • Balance out your color palette.
    Generally, pairing a neutral color with a vibrant color or pairing a pattern with a color that brings out the pattern’s subtle colors, complements your outfit’s palette. Contrarily, a monochromatic color scheme can look great when done right. Having more than 2-3 patterns and/or vibrant-colored (neutrals don’t count) items of clothing in a single outfit can look amazing on the runway, but on the streets, it can be an overkill. The eyes wouldn’t know where to look! If you start turning heads, it’s most probably not for the right reasons.

That concludes the SNOB Styling Laws!

Your style should define who you are, visually. (Like I couldn’t say anything more cliché). It’s cool to be known or identified by your signature looks! Keep in mind first and foremost that you style yourself FOR yourself and not so much so that others will notice you (but that can very well be a reason too).  Why should you settle for anything less than you deserve – a polished you! It’s only natural that looking great makes you feel great, a natural confidence booster.

“Create your own style… let it be unique for yourself and yet identifiable for others.”

– Anna Wintour

Sunday, February 19, 2012
• 9:37 PM •

Classy, NOT Trashy.

Classy, NOT Trashy.

“A girl should be two things – Classy and fabulous.”

– Coco Chanel

If attention is what you seek, wearing a skimpy outfit will no doubt get you noticed. A few heads will turn, perhaps some whistling will be thrown your way, and you might even get a free drink from the (creepy) guy eyeing you across the bar. Despite this, dressing in a red and black lace-up corset, light denim booty shorts that are two sizes too small, and a pair of 10 inch red stilettos you can barely walk in will never be sexier than wearing something classy that accentuates your best features without necessarily exposing them.

There appears to be a misunderstanding among some women as to what exactly constitutes sex appeal. All too often many will dismiss the idea of a so called ‘conservative’ outfit for something shorter, tighter and flashier under the impression that these characteristics are synonymous with sexy. That could not be more wrong. Opting for a classy look will always be sexier than looking like you desperately want to be featured in the next Girls Gone Wild video.

For sources of inspiration, let us take a look at a few women who have managed to combine style, class and sex appeal, and can still show up to Sunday service.

Exhibit A: Sophia Loren

Sophia Loren in a red jersey crewneck dress

Actress and beauty icon Sophia Loren depicts that perfect balance of class and sex appeal in this form fitting red dress. Who would have guessed a crew neck and short sleeves could be so classy?

Exhibit B: Diane Von Furstenberg

Fashion designer Diane Von Furstenberg’s infamous wrap dress bestowed instantaneous elegance and beauty on all women adorned with the flawless design. Paired with the right shoes and accessories there is nothing muffled about this look.

Exhibit C: Recent Victoria Beckham

Posh Spice has certainly gone through her fair share of skimpy outfits in the past, however, it would appear that the former pop star has come to her senses. Just take a look at Trashy Victoria vs Classy Victoria and be the judge of the better outfit.

…need I say more?

Exhibit D: Blake Lively

Named one of British Vogue’s Best Dressed of 2011, Blake Lively did not earn this title by looking like an extra in a Lil’ Wayne music video. Wearing a Missoni Fall 2011 dress on the The Tonight Show, Lively looks fun and flirty.

Leaving your house in an outfit that makes your parents wonder where they went wrong is a deplorable disservice to your fashion sense. Instead of looking sexy, your outfit will have a greater chance of seeming tacky and ill-fitting. Furthermore, it might give people an impression of you that is far from the truth. Rather than experimenting with how little fabric you can wear before being arrested for indecent exposure, try exploring how to work with cut, colour, and texture to create a unique style that flatters your figure without compromising your integrity.

All in all, If you are going for a sexy look, ditch the trash and keep the class. You will be doing yourself (and everyone with the gift of sight) a favor.